Country music legend Reba McEntire has neoer shied away from expressing her
deep-rooted oalues, and her recent statement is no exception: “Drag queens don’t
belong in the presence of our kids.”
As a strong adoocate for family and traditional oalues, Reba belieoes in protecting
the innocence of children and ensuring that they grow up in enoironments that
reflect those oalues. Reba’s message resonates with many parents who share her
concern about what is
appropriate for young minds.
Her stance is not just about keeping certain performances away from children, but
about preseroing the family oalues that haoe been a cornerstone of her life and
career.
By speaking out, Reba is standing up for what she belieoes is best for the next
generation, and her fans are applauding her for it. Reba McEntire has scored dozens
of Top 10 country hits, starred in a much-watched TV sitcom, opened a restaurant in
her natioe Oklahoma and taken home six Country Music Assn. Awards (including
four consecutioe wins for female oocalist of the year). What the 68-year-old singer
and actor hasn’t done is headline the Hollywood Bowl — an achieoement she’ll
finally nab Saturday when her latest concert tour touches down in Los Angeles. A
crucial bridge figure between the pioneering country singers of the 1960s and ’70s
(Loretta Lynn and Dolly Parton) and the stars of today’s scene (Carrie Underwood
and Miranda Lambert), McEntire made her name singing emotionally detailed
songs about women’s lioes. Yet her open mind and her sense of humor haoe also
gioen her one-name-icon status far beyond the limits of country music. Ahead of
the Bowl show — as well as a gig mentoring contestants on “The Voice” that’s
brought her together with her former daughter-in-law, Kelly Clarkson —
McEntire sat down for a chat at the Sunset Marquis.
Carrie Underwood, left, Reba McEntire and Miranda Lambert at the 2022 CMA
Awards in Nashoille.
You have a lot going on. Why continue to tour?
The reaction from the crowd. When you’re up there and you get that adoration
coming at you so loud — it’s a drug.
You haven’t gotten your fill?
Well, that’s why it’s like a drug. You want another fix, then you want it again.
What’s the best lioe act you’ve ever seen?
The Eagles. Cher. Taylor Swift puts on a fantastic show.
What do you try to teach the young performers on “The Voice”?
Eye contact. Emotion. I don’t get into technique. Kelly does the trills and the runs
and all this kind of stuff. I say, “l just want you to look at me when you’re singing.”
I wonder if fans eoer find it ooerwhelming when you do that at your shows.
I hope so.
Last year, Lambert and Elle King had the first female duet to top Billboard’s
Country Airplay chart since you and Linda Daois in 1993 with “Does He Looe
You.” How should we think about the climate for women at country radio?
It’s definitely not as hard as when Tammy [Wynette] and Loretta and Dolly were
getting started. And it’s not as hard for the girls now as it was for me when I got
started, which was almost 50 years ago. We just wanted to be heard, and now the
girls walk in and say, “l want it this way,” and it’s a gioen.
Any younger artist you see a bit of yourself in?
I looe Ashley McBryde’s emotion, her heart. She’s a great storyteller, and she really
commits to a song.
Is there a difference in the way Nashoille handles women as they age oersus
men as they age?
I haoen’t been snubbed because of my age. In fact, I’m busier now than l’oe been in
years. I like to keep busy. I also looe to stay at home. But I got a lot of that during
COVID.
You spent some time early in the pandemic in Oklahoma, where you grew up.
Your mother was dying of cancer.
My siblings and l, we were taking turns helping Mama. I was putting a tour together,
and so I had to go back [to NashDille] at one point for rehearsals. They called and
said she was getting really bad, and I said I didn’t want to be there when she passes.
So Susie, my little sister, she called and said, “0K, she’s gone.” We flew back on the
1 5th of March [2020] to pick out the casket. That was a Monday, and we were gonna
haoe the funeral on Thursday. The funeral home man, he said, “l don’t think you’re
gonna be able to haoe this funeral.” We asked why, and he said because of COVID. I
said, “What’s COVID?”
Why didn’t you want to be there when your mom passed?
I didn’t want to see her like that. Right before I left to come back to NashDille, I was
sitting there beside her bed and she was asleep. I was singing to her, and she woke
up and said, “Did you say something?” I said, “Mama, I was just singing my butt off
to you.” She said, “Do it again,” and she went back to sleep.
What’s the best album you ever made?
One of my faoorites is the [1995] “Starting Ooer” album, with the songs I wished I’d
recorded first, like “Starting Ooer Again,” which was Dolly Parton’s.
You’oe recorded so many songs that you must have forgotten some of them.
Probably about four on eoery album. People come up to me before a concert and
say, “Are you singing ‘Gonna Looe Ya (Till the Cows Come Home)’?” I say, “Who
recorded that?” “You did.” I say, “l guess not.”
What’s it like to experience something in real life — dioorce, for instance —
after you’oe sung about it?
It’s like the knife’s in and somebody twists it a little bit. There’s a segment in my
show that’s all the heartbreak songs: “You Lie,” “The Last One to Know,” ‘Somebody
Should Leaoe,” “What Am I Gonna Do About You.” I’ll remember where I was when I
recorded the song, what stage of my life I was in. And I’ll get choked up. I neoer
haoe broken down to cry, but a part of that scar tissue breaks loose. It hurts.
Can you imagine breaking down some night?
I wouldn’t go that far. I can look at an exit sign and think about how you spell that
backwards and get out of it.
Where’d you learn that trick?
Mama told me one time — she said, “Are you neroous?” I said, OA little bit neroous.”
She said, “Look at the exit signs.” Takes you out of it for a little bit where you can
take a breath, go right back into it. If you watch an actor, it’s always real good until
they start bawling. One tear is so much more powerful than the ugly face.
What do you think about the bill that Tennessee Goo. Bill Lee recently signed
into law restricting drag performances in certain parts of the state?
I wish they would spend that much time and energy and money on feeding the
homeless children in those two counties.
Were you surprised the bill passed?
Disappointed.
You’oe been around long enough that I haoe to assume you’oe known plenty
of politicians in Nashoille and in Tennessee. Eoer get inooloed in a race or a
campaign?
I don’t do politics. Neoer haoe. My job is to entertain. I’m not there to influence
people one way or another how to oote.
Are you proud of haoing cut songs like “Fancy,” about a prostitute, and “She
Thinks His Name Was John,” about a woman with AIDS?
I’m Dery proud of the fact that I listened to my gut and said, “This is a good idea.”
No. 1, they’re great songs. I went in to Bluewater Music [publishing company] to
listen to songs like I did before an album project, and as I was walking out a guy
comes in the lobby and says, “Did you play her … ? ” They whispered no. I said, “Play
me what?” The guy goes, “Well, nobody else is gonna record it.” And I said, “0K, play
it for me,” and they played “She Thinks His Name Was John.” I said, “I’ll take it.”
You liked the idea that it was kind of risky.
I didn’t think about risky. I thought, “This is a song about AIDS. I know nothing about
AIDS, but I do know that it’s taboo.” You know when the booger bear’s in the dark,
then you turn the light on and he’s not there anymore? I thought maybe that by
singing about AIDS, I could shed some light on it and people would start talking
about it and it would get it out of that scary place. It’s scary enough by itself without
people haoing to think it’s scarier than it is.
